Love, like every emotion is felt and not just said. It resides in the heart not in the mouth, although the mouth must assist in its expression. Like everything of value, it must be expressed through action and in-action. My aim here is to show how we can logically see the validity of a love claim; but it must be understood that most times some emotional things can never be proved by logic or reasonable judgments (after all emotions and reasoning are like cat and dog, they are perfect apart), hence this write up is not unequivocally accurate, it is still arguable.
The first fact I will establish here is that love is a feeling that triggers the lover into action, you don’t get or give love the way you do business. love is not a thing of physical value, its values are intrinsic, there are no quantifiers to quantify them; having said that, let me point that even though love is not an extrinsic thing, its impacts are seen physically. It’s like the spirit world controlling the physical world. You can’t see it but you can’t deny its impact as well, so the reasonable thing to believe is in their unquestionable existence.
I will premise my thought on the notion that “where your treasure is, there your heart will be also” (the Bible); the simplicity of this injunction carries with it a validity that transcends time and reason, after all nobody places a thing he values where his attention is not.
To this end let me humbly present that no man or woman who claims to love you withhold the things they value from you; be it their precious-time or their hard-earned-money or anything of sort, no they won’t, if they do, you really need to check their claims.
This does not implicitly mean that one that showers his valued resources on you loves you, no, but it has at least made an indication that he or she values you and sees something he likes or even loves in you; but like all heavenly feelings it solidifies as times passes. Let time be the judge. (to be continued)
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